-How does divorce work-emotionally, practically, legally?-How can you make it as painless as possible for you, your children, and even your spouse?-How can you avoid a trial-and why should you?-How do you select a lawyer or mediator?-When is litigation the only answer?-How do you divide your property-including intangibles?-What are your rights if you were never legally married?-How can you best protect the children-now and in the future?-How do you pick up the pieces and get on with your life?Whether you are contemplating divorce or have already begun the process, this book's step-by-step approach will go far in putting control of the divorce in your hands.