Reseña del libro "Unloved Again: Breaking Your Serial Addiction (en Inglés)"
Love can be hell. It is not an accident which moves us to love the wrong person or to drive the right person away over andover again,yet most of us remain unaware of how to escape this perpetual cycle of bad relationships.In this essential follow-up to Trapped in the Mirror: Adult Children of Narcissists in their Struggle for Self Dr. Elan Golomb shows how hateful, rejecting, or indifferent parents leavechildren frozen, continually seeking love that seldom comes. Whether wemimic the parental behavior in adulthood or remain frozen, feeling thatwe are worthless and do not deserve happiness, Unloved Again guides us through how and why we sabotage healthy relationships and perpetuate unhealthy relationships. Through psychological study, patients' stories, and her own experience, Dr.Golomb guides us through the harm that narcissistic and otherwisedamaging and unloving parents can have on our adult love lives. Dr.Golomb shares her own "Aha!" moment when she realized she could love and beloved and shares the resources to break our addiction to badrelationships and find the love that we truly deserve.Unlike dating advice books, Unloved Again does not seek to treat symptoms of bad relationships,but identifies the root cause, the crux of emotional and psychological problems whichunderlie love's repeated failures. Only in addressing these deep seatedissues can we escape our frozen condition and uncover the secret toenjoying a happy and lasting love life. This book is for anyone who has asked themselves any of the following:Why do I continually fall for the wrong person and drive the right type of person away?Why do my relationships quickly switch from blissful to tortured?Why do I find myself criticized unreasonably in every relationship?Why do I criticize my partner disproportionately?Why can't a find true love?Do I even deserve love? Praise for Unloved Again:"Unloved Again is a beautiful and moving portrait of a certain kind of person, one who is all too common in our society, one who has been so 'frozen' by their parents that they can't allow themselves to love or only finds peopleto love who can't love them back. Dr. Golomb's book inspiresintrospection, healing, and solace for those so wounded. I know many who would greatly profit from reading it."--Cherry Duke, professional vocalist and creative career consultant"In an articulate, touching, and down-to-earth book, Dr. Golomb exploresthe myth of the inevitability of failure in love. She explains the rootcauses of this disaster and how to break the pattern. Unloved Again is a must read for anyone who suffers repeated heartbreak."--Herb Robbins, PhD, past president of the New York Society of Clinical Psychology
